My friends pressure me to go out, and I don't want to because it's cold outside and I like to sit around in my home warm and cozy. Somehow they think I'm the problem now they don't wanna be friends.
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What friends are they?? 
Ik how it feels like. 
ok then don't be their friend and make them suffer
till they beg to come back
That's the thing they as a group will single me out and isolate me. I don't have a lot of friends and I will be lonely. This is the only reason I do things out of my comfort zone also pay for things so they'll include me in their group.
Why are you paying for them? It looks like they are using you instead of being real friends, don't let them use you, a good friend would never let you do things which would make you uncomfortable. Find new friends
I've been in this situation before. they're just using you and they might not think of you as a friend at all just a sidekick. i hate it when people do that. excluding others and treating them as such a doormat.
And why would you pay??? it's better to distance yourself from them. i know being alone is hard and sometimes we get used to that loneliness but it is better that having "friends" like them.
I have only one true friend. we've been friends for more than 10 years and we're so far apart but we still keep in touch.
I pray you find a friend and that your friendship lasts for a lifetime.
I know they use me, but I would shrug off these thoughts because there's a part of me that wants them to be my friends. I think it's high time I stop hanging out with them.
try to build confidence. looks, how u talk, how you act
then find better friends
then ask your friends to hang out whit your new friends
and make them quiet the whole day
I would rather not see them at all if I got new friends, also thanks to all of you guys made me feel better. Again thank you for your kind words. This community is the best thing that happened to me.
My dear your friends are toxic, You don't need people like that in your life, you deserve better. Try to approach others, I'm sure you'll find some really good people who would respect your boundaries won't force you to do things you don't like, and wouldn't use you or your money.