Comment by Moipe on Our Sunny Days - Chapter 51

Comment on ChapterOur Sunny Days - Chapter 51
Guy's my mother and sister found out I'm gay and they called me disgusting and so many things I'm feeling so down nowadays I don't know what to do. Now they look at me as if I'm something unordinary like I'm not normal it's like whenever i pass by the looks they give me is of disgust I'm getting ignored by my sister as like she has denied my existence i am getting depressed I'm having su©id@l thoughts.
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@Moipe It's going to be hard at first for them to understand and adjust and for you to accept the shift in your family dynamic, but as time goes on, it should get better. Just remember that it isn't wrong to like the same gender, both or none. Everybody has their preferences and types and just because your family doesn't support you doesn't mean that you should force yourself to be somebody you're not. I wish you luck in these troubling times and stay safe! Suicide may be the easier way out, but try and wait it out. If your mother and sister really love you then they will come to accept you as you are. Be strong ♥️
@Moipe oh no please don't think like that, there are people who will accept you. They don't deserve you .I'll support you
@Moipe heyy i hope that you're doing well and honestly it's your life and you should be able to love whoever you want regardless of gender, their opinions doesn'tmatter , even if they are your family but the most important is considering what you feel
Love should never be limited by genders and just know that you're someone awesome and you have your own purpose here
it hurts even more considering that they are your family but it is your life, do wtv you want
 
keep going!!
pepe sticker
@Moipe I would consider talking to a teacher or another trustworthy adult that can manage to have a serious talk with them, hope you're getting over this tough time soon.
@Moipe No please don't thinkike that mate no matter how hard life is don't even think about this kind of sh*** .... They might need some time to accept it isn't an abnormal thing but it can be a surprise so try to understand them as well and try to make them understand you more . And never think yourself abnormal ( if you are thinking like this ) I hope everything will be fine and normal again in your home dear and always keep time to yourself 🫶🏻
@Moipe you're beautiful.. who you decide to love doesn't change that, love is such a beautiful thing there's noway it can be disgusting. You who decide to go against the whole world and love who you love is so courageous. I just want you to know how strong you are, you deserve to live a happy life. There are so many people waiting to love you in the future so don't give up.. and honestly FŪCK your family you deserve so much betterpepe sticker
@Moipe  
It's hard for most people 
Getting ignored & denied by people you used to laugh with 
It's hard at first 
But I'll if they ignore you , you also ignore them 
If they insult you , you also talk back 

Instead of being understanding they upright forget the time you spent with them that means they don't deserve your love
@Moipe  
I'm so sorry your family is treating you that way, it's definitely not ok, your perfect the way you are and if they really love and respect you they'll be understanding towards you no matter your sexuality. I know it's hard rn but give yourself some time to find people who love you for your self.
plz remember just because you share blood doesn't mean they're your true family, surround yourself with people that you feel free with.
I wish you all the best and love
@Moipe  
I'm so sorry your family is treating you that way, it's definitely not ok, your perfect the way you are and if they really love and respect you they'll be understanding towards you no matter your sexuality. I know it's hard rn but give yourself some time to find people who love you for your self.
plz remember just because you share blood doesn't mean they're your true family, surround yourself with people that you feel free with.
I wish you all the best and love
@Moipe so sorry about that 🤗 Don.t know if you have the possibility but maybe talk to your father or another relative. If things are getter worse, think about leaving - it.s not worth sacrificing yourself for other if they don't even appreciate you.