Ever put your trust into someone?
Now imagine that same person and yourself losing that trust ? What usually happens? You fight, break up? Most the time but there are times where regardless of what has happened; you still want to stay with them. Maybe because of the amount of love you have for them or the amount of time that has been shared together. It's different for everyone. Trust is a double edged sword, you might be pointing the sword at them but at the same time you're cutting yourself. You have to give to receive. One way or another, you are bound to get cut anytime whether they break the trust or you do. In this case, he lied, never communicated { both parties I may add } and never gave a clear understanding of what happened that night with that woman. And instead of sitting down and talking about it. It's been put on the back burner and almost [forgotten] about. When in all reality, she's losing it. Anxiety and paranoia are two dangerous feelings to have combined and especially with trust that is broken. We can't honestly be mad at her completely. Is she being excessive! Yes, absolutely. But without communication and assurance, her feeling the way she does is normal in most cases like this. You can't tell me, you wouldn't feel the way she does if you've been with someone for over 10 years and this all happened within a week or two.
Now imagine that same person and yourself losing that trust ? What usually happens? You fight, break up? Most the time but there are times where regardless of what has happened; you still want to stay with them. Maybe because of the amount of love you have for them or the amount of time that has been shared together. It's different for everyone. Trust is a double edged sword, you might be pointing the sword at them but at the same time you're cutting yourself. You have to give to receive. One way or another, you are bound to get cut anytime whether they break the trust or you do. In this case, he lied, never communicated { both parties I may add } and never gave a clear understanding of what happened that night with that woman. And instead of sitting down and talking about it. It's been put on the back burner and almost [forgotten] about. When in all reality, she's losing it. Anxiety and paranoia are two dangerous feelings to have combined and especially with trust that is broken. We can't honestly be mad at her completely. Is she being excessive! Yes, absolutely. But without communication and assurance, her feeling the way she does is normal in most cases like this. You can't tell me, you wouldn't feel the way she does if you've been with someone for over 10 years and this all happened within a week or two.
