Comment by Kang Woojin Supremacy on I am in love with a bastardd named gu yansheng I just read the novel and he was freaking hot in it gosh I want them to be real I wish I could hug wennian and gu bitchh and gave kiss to their rosy cheeks

@I am in love with a bastardd named gu yansheng I just read the novel and he was freaking hot in it gosh I want them to be real I wish I could hug wennian and gu bitchh and gave kiss to their rosy cheeks "I am done with his personality" lmao then enter the donghua and take his place. "even though you went through some hardship" no it's not hardship. Call it what it is, trauma. They have showed two different scenes of people he liked growing up reacting to him. One told him being gay was gross, and one told him he wanted to be "normal" and like girls. What you are seeing is a trauma response. You have not attempted to understand the uke at all. You expect him to rush into the arms of everyone who supposedly loves him. Well that's not how trauma works. If you're done with his personality what are you going to do? Beat him up?

Imagine a girl gets r a p e d going home. Twice. And she develops a fear of men and a fear of walking home. And over the years she can't date men or be around men. You look like if you were a guy you'd say "bro I'm tired of your personality, yeah you got raped and went through some " hardship" but still I like you but you won't give me a chance blah blah and just make it about yourself. You have not understood what it's like to be a victim. Especially since Lihuan isn't out as a gay person, uke is very valid in his feelings of insecurity. Relationships don't just happen beautifully. Trust must be formed,and trust isn't formed easily. If you have a problem, please bang your head against the wall till it bleeds, ignorant f u c k e r