Guys i need advice. Ive been liking this guy almost 9 months i didnt tell anyone ahout it since he moved schools. My boy best friend i love him as a friend and i enjoy hanging out with him although the other day he confessed his feelings for me and said he liked one of my friends as well. He proceded to ask me out which i said give me 4 days to rhink about it. Mind you i also still like the guy of 9 minths although he lives 50 mins away and moved school. I decided to let go of my feel8ng fir that giy cause i had been trying way to hard. Today is now the 4th day and i said sure i could date you but he left me on deliverd fir 12 hours now did i do the right thing😭?
Comment by Tamaki on Our Sunny Days - Chapter 12
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@Tamaki maybe u should go and confess to the guy you liked for 9 months now, I meann you still a have a long life to live huhu... And if u wanna try to date ur guy best friend , then js try it.. But tbh why would he leave you in delivered for 12 HOURSS?? If he really wanted to ask u out then he should at least maybe reply to you earlier..
Owhh and also, if he chooses ur friend to ask out instead of u, and if u still have a little love for the guy you liked for 9 months, maybe try confessingg girl! I mean he only lives 50 mins away? You could tell him in personal or if u contact him, text him..
@Tamaki does that guy you like for 9 months even know you exist? Real life isn't like a shojo manga and confessing to someone doesn't up the chances that you'll date. You need to think things through and be realistic.
Also dude or dudette why are you asking advice from a bl manhwa's comment section when people here have a higher percentage of being underage or single?
Also dude or dudette why are you asking advice from a bl manhwa's comment section when people here have a higher percentage of being underage or single?
@Tamaki anything can happen within 4 days. Like your guy friend realised he doesn't like you and regretted confessing. And when he read your msg in the notification maybe he didn't know what to do that's why he's not opening it.
But do you really like to date him? It's like hanging out with him but with occasional kissing and hugging. And you can get pregnant too, if you're a girl. Saying this from experience. I didn't get pregnant though. I have a guy a liked for years. One day his friend made a move on me. I gave up on the first guy after weeks of thinking and dated the friend. After a few months I broke up with him cuz he's..not the person I thought he is and realised he's a red flag from the very beginning. He's my firsts but I regretted dating him. He's a good friend but not a good boyfriend.
My advice is to think harder before deciding to enter in a relationship. If you're ready for everything, go. Otherwise step back and think it over.
But do you really like to date him? It's like hanging out with him but with occasional kissing and hugging. And you can get pregnant too, if you're a girl. Saying this from experience. I didn't get pregnant though. I have a guy a liked for years. One day his friend made a move on me. I gave up on the first guy after weeks of thinking and dated the friend. After a few months I broke up with him cuz he's..not the person I thought he is and realised he's a red flag from the very beginning. He's my firsts but I regretted dating him. He's a good friend but not a good boyfriend.
My advice is to think harder before deciding to enter in a relationship. If you're ready for everything, go. Otherwise step back and think it over.