Comment by Yuri on Sand Castle - Chapter 35

Comment on ChapterSand Castle - Chapter 35
Okay y'all, you need to understand that they're both toxic. The mc have known it since he started pursuing the ml that the ml is toxic. He have known what he's getting into and he turned a blind eye and enjoyed it. Now that there's another one he's just leaving him like he did to his ex or another reason is he didn't turned a blind eye this time so he left because he wasn't feeling it anymore and started to feel suffocated which he is since the beginning but he just turned a blind eye to it. He's not any better. I'm not defending the ml either 'cause he's so toxic and it's not surprising that they will eventually break up. The mc is a lot worse for me 'cause he's just love bombing and leaving his bf when he feels like it. Why'd I said when he feels like it? I already explained it but because he knows what he's getting into but he enjoys it until he don't. The ml is toxic tho. They're both toxic that's it, the mc is just worse.

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@Yuri well..you must have never been in an abusive relationship before. Even if a person sees the abusive side of their partner it's still hard to end things because there are still good moments in-between (the author showed that quite well). You tell yourself that everything will get better because there are good moments. You make excuses for your partner's bad/abusive behavior because at the end of the day you still love them. And that's exactly what mc is doing. Trying to find excuses for Jiwoos behavior because he loves him. So I'm not mad he just got so fuc**** tired and ends it now.