Comment by IDGAF BI*** on My Guildmate Next Door - Chapter 73

@IDGAF BI*** yeonwoo probably was half asleep and also just as disappointed in him as me

@IDGAF BI*** he's autistic & delulu

@NANI TF does't give him the right to kiss a sleeping especially since they're not dating and even while in relationship it's still wrong unless both parties have explicitly agreed upon it

@IDGAF BI*** Uh? You're obviously not supposed to take what he says at face value? And dude come on. Kissing someone in their sleep is so da** normal, he just touched his lips and you say it's sa? It wasn't even anything sexual? Little kids know sleeping beauty but no one says anything. Why are you so grumpy ah? Has jigu infected you

@Dianxia Supporter if I kiss you when you're obviously asleep and can't consent you'll be fine with it right? and do you even know the original sleeping beauty? if you think kissing a sleeping person is okey especially since they're not in a relationship then there's something wrong with you , not me darling, go see a therapist, or maybe your prefrontal cortex is still underdeveloped

@IDGAF BI*** Well, of course I'd be fine with it, I wouldn't even know it happened. It's just skin contact. I wouldn't say the same if there was tongue involved. Moreover, I HAVE experienced it, someone shoved their tongue in expecting me not to wake up??? Either way, I do know the original sleeping beauty but what does that have to do with anything? Whether it's fine or not isn't the main point, people do questionable things everyday, we can't be nitpicking everything, what I'm trying to say is this is a really common occurence and Jigu doesn't deserve the hate.

@Dianxia Supporter do you hear yourself? just because it's common doesn't mean it's right, and because nitpickey people exist that's why the world is a slightly better place to live in rn, earlier days it was a common occourance for women to get abused, ra** victims blamed for getting raped, women burned down as witches, child infanticide, marital ra**, etc, you think that's right? no , it's not , it shouldn't be, just because it's common doesn't mean it's right. what happed to you isn't right and I am sorry you had to go through something like that, it's disgusting , horrible and you or anyone in your situation has every right to "nitpick" , the main point is consent which a sleeping person cannot give. your point "i'll be fine with it cause I wouldn't even know about it" isn't something valid, many people are taken advantage of after being drugged, in their sleep or when they are unaware and vulnarable(in ots, hospitals under anesthesia, coma,etc) do you really thing any form of physical intimacy with them when they are unaware makes it right? no, it's not and I hope you can stop thinking like that.
and I am not hating on jigu, I am just disappointed in him, ik he's a good person but that tiny unknowing action is what disappointed me

@IDGAF BI*** I never said it was right because it was common. But precisely because it's so common and it's not such a big deal(Your examples are quite excessive) Many people don't think twice before leaning in. I'm not trying to downplay the lack of consent but in truth it's really just the same as someone poking your cheek when you're asleep. It's the same layer of stratified squamous. I was just pis*** that people were hating on Jigu for no reason. He's just so cute I can't stand it

@Dianxia Supporter I never came across a hate comment against jigu or maybe cause I don't really focus on comments a lot but as I said I was disappointed in his actions, like a mom disappointed in her kid when they do something wrong, the kid is not hated, I absolutely love jigu , he's the greenest one yet but that action just threw me off partly maybe because I hate physical intimate touches from people I don't allow

@Dianxia Supporter them: I'll pretend to be okay with it so that i won't embarrassed myself here