There's this girl in my class who gets mad anxious if someone even just asks what the professor's name is. She gets anxious over the smallest of things, and can't stand up for herself to save her life. She was assigned some work over this class fest thing, and she knew she couldn't handle it, but still said she'd do it when the professor asked her. She could've said no. But she didn't. She was given a choice.
So, a few days ago, I was sick and couldn't come to help the rest with preparations. I msged her saying so, on our collective WhatsApp group, and she didn't reply. But this other girl msged me on personal saying I should just msg the professor directly cuz I knew the anxious girl gets anxious a lot when given responsibilities. I got frustrated, and just ended up going the next day, even though I was sick, and helped them around a little before going home. I was still frustrated yesterday, and told my other friend about how I was frustrated, and i didn't understand why the girl had to act like some kind of a lawyer for the anxious girl, and the friend was like, she gets anxious, you should understand, bla bla bla.
Thing is, I do understand, but there is a limit to how long this goes on. I've seen that girl crying and sobbing because of the stress she was in, and u feel bad, but at the same time, at least ask for help??? Ask the others in class to help her tell the professor she couldn't do it??? And then that friend went and told that lawyer wannabe girl about what I said, and she texted me about how I'm an adult too, and I could've just talked to her directly if I had a problem with her and s*t, and I was so mad, I just ended up apologizing and explaining I was just frustrated. And honestly?? I feel like I'm never going to be able to talk to these friends about something I simply need help making a decision.
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