despite her circumstances i can't feel sympathetic for her. like yeah I'm sorry that happened to you, really. but what does that have to do with them? what does they're relationship have to do with you? it's none of your business to begin with. it's okay to be worried, but don't be insensitive and say things like "there's better options out there" when you have no right to cast judgement or an opinionon something you have no say in.