@Kookie i think he just meant that Ian thinks he's being kind to him but Jo is doing what he's doing because he wants Ian to see him as kind so his intention are not very pure but more selfish to be seen under a good light. It's like I'm not a good person, I'm only good to you because i want you and that's totally on my side but if I was really kind I would stop pursuing you bc I know you like someone else
I wanna see so action from Jo