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Hey guys I have a question it's it wrong to be feminine?? So yesterday my mom bought me a hair drying brush I really like them and always wished for them. My two friends are bit... So the first has some idennity problems and is not feminine at all and the second one to expect for me who loves clothes taking care of my hair, adorable things smell things,etc... my friends called feminine but I in a bad way as if it's something wrong to be a women... And they call me a spoiled brat because my mom makes me lunch and my mom and dad try to fulfil my wishes as best as possible and want be to be happy those two have shi*** parents but still just because my parents aren't shi*** doesn't mean I am spoiled please tell me I am not in wrong ???
uhhhh... I've got no idea what to write so yeah, umm have a nice day I guess

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@Entrenal You're 100% right. You do you and what makes you happy. You will never be able to please everyone, so just try to be nice to others and a good person. If people don't like that, I wouldn't keep them around. A lot of people suck these days. Life is hard enough as it is without people trying to cut you down over silly things. Keep your chin up kiddo! (This is coming from someone who has been around the block a time or two. Best of luck!) I
@Entrenal there is nothing wrong with being feminine or masculine ppl who have a problem with you being either one are the ones being wron
questionable
questionable·1 year ago
@Entrenal you are asking the wrong question. If your friends are giving you flak out of jealousy, are they really your friends? Now if you are in a position to share and don't, that is a different matter, but why should you let classmates dictate how your parents love you.
@Entrenal  No, being feminine is definitely not a bad thing. But unfortunately, society as a whole built this image for many, many years, so the deconstruction is arduous and long. Do whatever makes you happy, and feels like the right thing to do to be honest with yourself. And about your parents, I don't think you're spoiled, you're just lucky enough to have cool parents who care about you. That's just life. 🤷🏾♀️😚
Armageddon
ArmageddonBattle-Hardened·1 year ago
@Entrenal  don't let others ruin your happiness/stuff/life just cause they aren't happy
Ty you all I knew I am not the weird one you know what you are all right I love my feminine side and I will cherish it Ty all
Lit ur fav
Lit ur fav·1 year ago
@Entrenal  spoilt is when you assume everything is done for you and you don't do sh**.from what I'm hearing,no you're not spoilt
@Lit ur fav exactly i work at the home and i am always gratefull just because my parents pick me up from school doesn't make me spoiled 😭 😭
@Entrenal well u have good parents and u urself a good child so theres no need to be doubting urself up. I would too recommend that u question about ur frnds abit to urself like "r they really my frnds if they try to change me?"

ps: i had frnds when i was young who tried to and did change me(bcs i was young nd "tried to fit in frndship circles") plus they did talk bad my back. 
I later realized that its better to not have toxic frnds. I'm fine by myself and if there are frnds who match my vibe i'm open for them.