Comment by Sofia Margaret Flores on Bad Thinking Diary - Chapter 18

Comment on ChapterBad Thinking Diary - Chapter 18

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@Ky she keeps on saying slow down and stop doing it like that, it should be enjoyable for both parties. Minji is basically stop, and Kang Yuna isn't stop, so it's basically rap3
@Somji I don't think it's rap3 bcs she's isn't saying stop or pushing her away. And I think they're both enjoying mutually want this bcs minji pulled her for a kiss the second time but yeah
@Somji it's not rap3 yuna literally asked minji if she wanted to do it in the first place, minji didn't reject her. and plus she's not telling yuna to stop she's just telling her to slow down 😭
@sin If two people agree to have s** but one of them says “slow down” and the other person doesn’t listen and keeps going harshly, that’s not fully consensual anymore. Consent has to be ongoing, and anyone can change their mind or set boundaries at any time. Ignoring those boundaries means it can be considered sexual assault or ra**, even if they originally said yes. It’s never okay to keep going if the other person is asking to slow down.
@Gabs   If two people agree to have s** but one of them says “slow down” and the other person doesn’t listen and keeps going harshly, that’s not fully consensual anymore. Consent has to be ongoing, and anyone can change their mind or set boundaries at any time. Ignoring those boundaries means it can be considered sexual assault or ra**, even if they originally said yes. It’s never okay to keep going if the other person is asking to slow down.