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Strawberry_ShortcakeΒ·2 months ago(edited)

I have a question🚨. I have a friend who is 13 years old and will soon be 14, and she has been in a relationship with a 17-YEARS-OLD boy for 4-5 weeks whom she met on Roblox. He still DOESN'T want to show his face, and when she told him his age, he said it was okay, but that NO ONE else should know, otherwise it would be difficult for him Or something like that. We agree he's really bizarre and strange AND A RED FLAG🚩 ?What do you think???? 

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Madam yal
Madam yalΒ·2 months ago

@Strawberry_Shortcake 1000000000% a redddd flag 1) the age gap is to big in like mentality like a 17 year old should nottt be attracted to a 13 year old I'm 17 myself and find it so strange 2) saying no one should know means he knows himself it's wrong and can also mean he's even older than 17 3) after dating for more than a month not showing his face is strange like if they were just friends ok but datingggg??? H*l nah he is bizarre tell your friend to stop it before she gets hurt

@Strawberry_Shortcake no that's definitely not okay pls try convince her to just block him that's a major red flag he could be much older and 17 is still too old when he turns 18 it'll be illegal and that's if he's being honest about his age it's not just bizarre it's dangerous and ppl including me thought or think that they'll be careful and their not stupid enough to be manipulated but trust me it never ends well

@Strawberry_Shortcake that's really really problematic for these ages. The fact that he refuses to show his face means he could be an old man too. I would explain to her how problematic it is and that she should stop talking with him
Dating someone on Roblox was her first mistakeπŸ’”

@Strawberry_Shortcake I was in a kinda similar thing back when I was 14 it wasn't a relationship more just flirting but looking back now that I'm way older I frankly am disgusted that a 17 yr old would even be interested in someone that young the best thing for now it to talk to her tell her ur concerns but try to do it as gently as possible it can go mainly these 2 ways either she listens and breaks it off or she thinks her relationship is under attack and will be pushed further into his arms so to say there many other possibilities but these are the 2 likely things to happen as such its realllly important u make it know that ur their for her and that she can come to u with any concerns.

(Sorry this got super long 😭😭)