@WhatTheH not defending their actions but they both seem to *not* wanna talk about what they're dealing with. half the time, they don't even acknowledge that it's a real problem that's destroying them. when they do realise, they prefer to not even talk abt it with people they're close to so a therapist is a long shot.they're learning to trust each other and communicate more so i'm pretty sure we'll get some good therapy sessions later