You expect that because he's a boy it'll make him look soft and gay if he sits a certain way, and that way of sitting isn't even feminine there's not even a feminine way of Sitting or doing things moving is just moving not girly not boyish just moving geez and what's this obsession with thinking masculine is aloof emotionally and mentally not there behavior? Like crying isn't feminine or girly it a normal fuc**** human emotions that shows your brain is working properly this mindset and mentality is harmful to the mental health if that person you force it on