To Mh
I'm a women but I do enjoy bl/yaoi. Not in the creepy way tho, I like the wholesomeness. And when the spicy things show up I will just skip through it. but with the Bl it's not that you can see how they do it. You just know, but the parts that you do see are adoreble. That's what I like and that's also the only healthy way a women should read bl/yaoi (in my opinion)