@Blvynx I'm not bothering to read any of the 3 replies because I'm sure I'd disagree with whatever assessment you'll make. I've seen these points regurgitated for other tops & alphas who commit r*pe, manipulation, IPV, etc. The over-sympathisation & infantilisation gets annoying to hear. The blindspot of not seeing the bottoms as victims but as participants in an abusive partnership ie "mutual abuse". I'm sure that's what you're going to length to in 3 replies. I've seen people like you try to make excuses (whilst saying I'm not excusing) a top or alpha's actions. And it most of the time s*xual assault and/or domestic & financial abuse. Blame an impoverished past, parental wounds, etc; everything but the perpetrator of the action in the present. It's further exacerbated by the fact that the bottom aren't the demure, small, & pure perfect victims to see transgressions done onto them by their abusers. If you don't see him as a victim of that boy in consideration this chapter where he's attempting to coerce him into s*x, that's your morally inept prerogative.