Why are we saying for TJ and Ian to get together? They don't talk things out, just s**. Whenever they're upset at each other, they fu** it out. Their relationship is complex and they USED to be close which they hint a lot in the story, they're not lovers, just two people that have never met someone to depend on besides each other. And for the Jo and Ian thing, they communicate sometimes but they didn't have a safe word which is why around like 50-54 Jo kept going because Ian told him to go rough. Ian doesn't know to do because he's afraid of change. This story is so much more complex than a relationship thing. I want Ian to be happy because of himself.
@meowingforgojo Of course Ian and TJ ARE toxic, they don't show any affection. Jealousy is mainly what TJ is because what will he be without Ian? He doesn't know what to do because he depends on him and Ian knows that so that's why he can't leave him either. Jo seems to have been good until he realized he'll never be with Ian, that's why he wanted to be friends with him. Until the stupid chapter where Ian passes out and he keeps going and nuts on his face. There's no explanation for that. Of course TJ wouldn't do that to Ian like Jo did. TJ doesn't want to treat him horribly and make Ian leave but Ian wants to be better. He just doesn't or can't do so. Everyone instead of focusing on who will get with Ian, focus on the STORY.
however i'd like things between tj and ian to be clarified and to start over somehow but as long as we have a happy ending fir the characters8 it doesnt matter