@I pis*** myself Agreed! but if he doesn't even try to overcome it, then he's going to just sabotage his own happiness and opportunities. And in this process he'll not only hurt himself but others around him too. Communicating and seeking help is the best one could do.
Please recommand red/black flag BL
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To those who add rude replies to my comments, just cause I'm morally and ethically sane unlike some of y'all