@random I know, it's just that, most yaoi comics I've seen has the same kind of events, at this point I'm getting convinced that it's just an overwhelmed expression like everybody else said. I've never seen any type of yaoi mangas that tells the top to stop and they actually do ( unless you have ) No consent, yes that's true, though, wouldn't it be weird if they had to ask ( lovers ) if they wanted to do it. I admit it's a good thing to be polite/straight forward, but sometimes it really depends on the situation you're in. Of course we're talking about lovers, because if not then that's a no. I'm not saying that s@ or r@p3 is good, just trying to differentiate the two.