no sorry I have a bad way of explaining my point when I'm trying to say what I mean...
however I never assumed you were a trans person
I just was trying to state that if you were a trans man that would be understandable for why you feel like you want to be a man..
however I never mentioned anything abt trans women
cause trans women are women and cis women are women and either of those women it would be "weird" for them to mention they want to be a gay man...
plus side note trans women can't be gay men cause they are not a man.
But I was not referring to trans women I was referring to
"cis women" ie those are ppl like yourself.. I was referring to if a cis woman did not realize that they are actually a trans man and not a woman, and the reason they want to be a man and see themself as a gay man is because they just did not realize that they are actually a man and likes men and that would be gay cause they are a man that likes men.
i was mentioning "trans" because I know that there are some ppl who had that experience.
but I wasn't referring to you, I know you are a cis woman..
but
what I was also trying to explain is that, the fact that you're a "woman" it DOES NOT matter that you're a lesbian or if someone is straight .
my point is that as a gay man and not only me but a few other gay men while we do find it weird for a "woman" to say they want to be a boy just to like men ..
it's not harmful but we just find it really weird.
but I personally was saying that the only instance where I wouldn't find it werid is if a trans man says it.. I would understand because I'm guessing that since they are a man that just means they like men in a gay way..
(Part one)
