Comment by Bro idk I need help on Heaven Official's Blessing - Chapter 92

Comment on ChapterHeaven Official's Blessing - Chapter 92
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(im gonna ask for advice here cuz idk where to turn too.so i have this best friend and lets call her jessie.
we have been friends for maybe 5-6 years and well she is my only friend like i have none. i have people i can talk too but they arent my friends she is my only friend.

so like yesterday my brother finally got snapchant [he isn't very social and doesn't have a lot of social media ] i told him not to add jessie and he did anyway. i figured that he would do it so i told jessie that if he gets a request from a specific user too js ignore it. 

she didnt. she even texted him and stuff. i am not really mad about her accepting the request im mad that she did it after i told her not too.

their was another time where i introduced her to a friend on discord and i found out he was talking behind my back and so ofc i blocked him and sh**. i told jessie to block him too or wtv. i thought she did but i was friends with his sister so i found out she didn't. and well for being friends for 5-6 years i have her discord acc and i only logged in to see if it was true and i think u can guess.
 
she didnt. instead he was talking behind my back to her and she was agreeing.
i know i probably shouldve cut her off at that time but i couldn't cuz she was best friend. so i gave a second chance and right now im really thinking about it. please give me your opinion )
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@Bro idk I need help   i think yiu shouldd not give her a second
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I wanna hug ahjusyy ·2 years ago
@Bro idk I need help I'd say cut her off, sorry but she's a really bad friend. I know she's your best friend but that doesn't mean you were her bestie too. Don't be sad about it you have bl( that's how I cheer myself up). Also you can talk to her about it.
@Bro idk I need help She's a crawsis for that. Yuh can't a chat yuh fren behind har back. I understand that it may be hard to do so, but don't give her another chance. I'm sure you'll find someonr more worth your friendship. 

She a dutty crawsis and mek har crawl up inna har mada
@Bro idk I need help I suggest you to just cut all ties with her, she's not a real friend, just like in a relationship, it doesn't matter how long u guys were friends but how strong thst friendship is
@Bro idk I need help Stop wasting your time on her, she doesnt deserve your time
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MeowMember·2 years ago(edited)
@Bro idk I need help   in my opinion don't give her. if she was really your friend she wouldn't ignore u. And all the thing with she agrees with that guy on discord is just worng. Sorry to tell u but she's sound awful. I hope u Talk things out with her.. I hope u are doing okay!! :)bunny sticker
@Bro idk I need help  
Sorry but you will propably have to cut contact with her, so you don't get anymore hurt with this.
Because think about it, if you confront her about this, you will have to tell her how you found out this information. At first she will deny everthing and want evedince. You will have to tell her in the long run that you logged into her account to spy on her. Not only is your trust broken but hers will be broken too. And a frendship without trust ist really exhausting. You will always question her and she will do the same. 
If you still wants to be her friend, you will have to start from zero. She will never be your best friend again. 
She hurt you to bad for this.

But the first thing you should is to confront her about this. If you do not do this, then you will suffer in silence till it became to much and you will break up your frendship.
@Bro idk I need help dearie cut it off cuz she's literally agreeing to everything being speaken good or bad behing your back..... i had this friend who did that and let me tell you those are the types to agree to any gossip even if they knew you are not like my high school classmates were just like her. one day she might even backstab you when you need her the most sooo better cut it off you have us online friends for you <3
@Bro idk I need help My advice ...save yourself the mental pressure... you're here worrying about all this and she's probably living her life care free. We all cherish friends we've known for a long time...but...you have to put down old clothes that you loved once they don't fit you anymore...and it's okay...just like you can buy new clothes...more friends will come along....maybe ...some in a one fits all size that you can keep forever. Sorry for using clothes as a comparison but you get what I mean.
Plus ...ask yourself whether this friendship brings you joy anymore...
....and no...I'm not that into clothes and stuff.😅
@Bro idk I need help thank you all. I've cut ties with her and talked about it. She really just let it happen and said okay..

I'm really thinking about this I really don't know if this was the right choice but I'll try to get over it. I really care about her and I tell everyone that we are friends. Even my family knows her. I talked about this with them and they also said to cut her off. So I did. Thank you for comfort and stating your opinion it really helped me