Comment by Iris on Back to School - Chapter 19

@Iris I understand your point.. but genuine question.. if you're acted this way with you because he likes would you have a convo with them? I get that it's wrong to play someone's feelings for you but how would you have reacted for your friend to force their feelings onto you.. I understand jinhyun very well as I had a boyfriend who was abused by his father and he never had anyone to rely much until he met me, but sh** started to take a turn he wants to force things onto me, not sexually though cause I would've punched him in face had it been that way because of my personality.. even though he never abused me physically, not that he dared, but he tend to want to keep me to himself.. I know it's a bit different from this situation but he shouldn't have tried to have this conversation with him being drunk and I think that chiwoo was trying to dodge this question because he's drunk, which caused him to act on impulse. I'm not justifying his actions and chiwoo should've straight up tell me da** man that he doesn't want to be in a relationship with him as it'll destroy their friendship he should've but I'll totally disagree with him reacting so violently, chiwoo has been brushing his feelings for a long time so why act on it now

@Iris his past doesn't justify his actions, i quite literally been through all that as a child. Beaten, molested, self harmed, bullied, had only one friend, and a few years ago was blamed for the death of my grandfather's sister because "I closed the door in her face" when her daughter, my aunt, tried to drop her off (mind you my mom was in the hospital, and I was already home alone taking care of my grandfather and autistic brother so my mom told me to tell her I couldn't. I was merely a teen.) You don't see me going around beating people and s'a people so they could "love me".