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Hi,  I wanted to tell someone how I'm feeling coz there is no one... I edated a guy for 8 months. He was just my type, I was finally feeling butterflies for first time, he was a medico student... He was really busy all the time. At first he was always available for me, writing songs for me, then it started to fade and he was just busy for like past 5 months... I have traumatic family, he knew everything but never said a word of condolence.... He even gave me his ig I'd and password... He never called me his girlfriend but a wife... He was different from guys I knew... I liked him... But it's over now, I decided to broke up with him, coz no matter what I said my condition is, he don't care, he is very narcissist and I login to his account and found out he have alot of time for his class girls... I don't know anything anymore... I have panic attacks from childhood and I'm very emotional... I broke up with him today.... 
Thank you for listening,  please tell me what should I have done???
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@Ezra If you think what you did was right then thats okay. I think I wouldve tried talking to him about it before breaking up but I understand where youre coming from. All the best!!
@meow meow I tried talking to him but he blames everything on me.. He never gave me mental support and always fight on my worst days..
@Ezra hi... you did the right thing by breaking up... if someone you'rr dating doesnt care about you, there's no needto stay with that person. But here are a few things to do
1. Work on yourself - mentally, socially, physically (eat well, exercise well, upskill)
2. In a way try to "manage" your past - heal from it & move on, the next person doesnt need to hear about it and even if you do share it should be from a place of healing & strength.
3. Engage yourself in a hobby or community or reading club to get out of "those feelings /situations.
Best wishes
Belle