Please tell me I'm not the only one. I judge people on their "covers" (witch I think everyone does but doesn't say it out loud) But don't get me wrong, I give all the due respect to everybody, and even though some give me weird vibes all I do is to tell myself that I shouldn't be judging people I don't know, so I don't do anything. Having said that, why, and I genuely ask because I may be laking info's, why are so many grown up Indian men like that? You know what I mean, and it's sad that you know what I mean by saying just that. When I go out and pass some Indian man, I hear them making comments on my body, like, they are telling directly, openly staring with *those* eyes. I'm not saying you can't look, we have eyes to do so, but they're not embarrassed of looking at a clearly teenage girl (witch I am) and *tell me directly* comments about my body. I don't want to judge, I hate judging people you don't know, especially ethnicities, we are all humans, and I'm not saying every Indian man is like that. But you get me if I say I'm scared? Can I be scared? Feel uncomfortable? I feel like every time I do a different rout because I know there are Indian men in the other I'm doing a moral crime. Please tell me I'm not the only one, you get what I feel right? Ugh I feel like sh**
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@IAmSleepy nah bro you ain't the only one many people (&me) we have an image of certain people the back of our minds due to past experiences. And i by default don't trust men(be it any not just indian).
I get what you feel. No one should feel scared to walk home but what can we do the world has become sh**. Yk earlier this year like in april my classes ended pretty late (at 7: 30 or smth) and it takes me an hour to reach home by public transport and walking. That day all i could think while going home was this could be my last day (the area i have to walk by becomes less busy by that time) and fun fact the city i live in one the safest in my state but you never know.
I get what you feel. No one should feel scared to walk home but what can we do the world has become sh**. Yk earlier this year like in april my classes ended pretty late (at 7: 30 or smth) and it takes me an hour to reach home by public transport and walking. That day all i could think while going home was this could be my last day (the area i have to walk by becomes less busy by that time) and fun fact the city i live in one the safest in my state but you never know.
@IAmSleepy wow thats really sad but i think i can relate i can only give you advice based on where you live so do you live in canada?
@IAmSleepy wow thats really sad but i think i can relate i can only give you advice based on where you live so do you live in canada?
@IAmSleepy Internet was meant to enhance humanity but philanthropic geeks forgot the deep nature of humanity is plainly sinful.
Not talking from a religious nor spiritual level, just the plain wicked/evil joy and egoism and jealousy etc any baby feels -- things parents must rectify to ensure the growing kids aquires the capability to live later on, because we live in a society. If not taught properly as soon as the outing of cradle, fat chance you end up with a benevolent person let alone a saint, but at least maybe polite children fast to stray mischievous the moment you don't watch. If such tendency is not corrected during childhood, then the outcome is trashy if not worse.
Top it with Internet, and the "enhancement" might worsen things. Because "enhancing" is just enhancing (=does not equal to improvement), whatever the direction.
Not talking from a religious nor spiritual level, just the plain wicked/evil joy and egoism and jealousy etc any baby feels -- things parents must rectify to ensure the growing kids aquires the capability to live later on, because we live in a society. If not taught properly as soon as the outing of cradle, fat chance you end up with a benevolent person let alone a saint, but at least maybe polite children fast to stray mischievous the moment you don't watch. If such tendency is not corrected during childhood, then the outcome is trashy if not worse.
Top it with Internet, and the "enhancement" might worsen things. Because "enhancing" is just enhancing (=does not equal to improvement), whatever the direction.

