Ian get a grip love. You can't be indecisive about a choice. Both Tj and Jo have different things to offer him. He just has to choose one and be definite about it. I've had about enough with his dilly dallying what he does is unhealthy for the three of them literally, like don't get me wrong I completely understand Ian's pov and feelings but they also have feelings . I just feel sorry for them to the point I want all 3 of them go they're separate ways.