@CARMEN after divorce my mom dated this guy who was 12 years older and after him she also dated guys with similiar age gap, so I as well don't see the problem. I think that because we know and are very close to people who are in this situation, we are witnesses to affection that can't be bothered by such a thing like age gaps, and with getting older age gaps are not that scandalous anymore, and guess what we all are getting older. But sometimes people are really searching for problems, where there are none (for all my mistakes I'm sorry, english is not my first language).