Since the "how to make a victim depend on abuser" part is over, I'll just continue chapter by chapter type of stuff :).
CH.61
Inseop is a serial killer. Sometimes, serial killers and most of the time sociopaths get drawn to some people whom they abuse. Take by example sociopaths or CEOS of companies-- they seek power and abuse the people around them (it's why they have no issue stepping over others) and rank ⬆️ to power.
Inseop doesn't want Gijeong to die because to him, she is an object. She is not her own person; she is only an object of possession. Serial killers though, function a bit differently than your typical abuser because they have a targets audience whom they lure and murder. Inseop is very empty as a person and man.
He NEEDED something to make him feel alive. That something is a woman who already lived through abuse. He needs her alive for his own ego. If he has to murder everyone to break her down, he will and already does.
He weaponizes her isolation and abuses her to the edge for not being the "happy go-lucky partner" he expected her to be.
Gijeong is a strong woman, 100%.
But some abusers seek for strong victims to break them down themself. This is a great example of it.
The issue is that she has no one really. If she leaves, he keeps finding her. Going to the police? To place a restraining order?..
It can worsen the behavior of an abuser when they found out there's a restraining order. They seek more control due to losing it.
--> gijeong was alone and isolated
--> inseop knew it and continuously exploits that fact
And a lot of high functioning sociopaths/psychopaths go to jobs like these --> Law, corporate, politics, acting.
Since there's a thrill of stepping over others, abusing power and victims to contain a strong image about themselves.
CH.61
Inseop is a serial killer. Sometimes, serial killers and most of the time sociopaths get drawn to some people whom they abuse. Take by example sociopaths or CEOS of companies-- they seek power and abuse the people around them (it's why they have no issue stepping over others) and rank ⬆️ to power.
Inseop doesn't want Gijeong to die because to him, she is an object. She is not her own person; she is only an object of possession. Serial killers though, function a bit differently than your typical abuser because they have a targets audience whom they lure and murder. Inseop is very empty as a person and man.
He NEEDED something to make him feel alive. That something is a woman who already lived through abuse. He needs her alive for his own ego. If he has to murder everyone to break her down, he will and already does.
He weaponizes her isolation and abuses her to the edge for not being the "happy go-lucky partner" he expected her to be.
Gijeong is a strong woman, 100%.
But some abusers seek for strong victims to break them down themself. This is a great example of it.
The issue is that she has no one really. If she leaves, he keeps finding her. Going to the police? To place a restraining order?..
It can worsen the behavior of an abuser when they found out there's a restraining order. They seek more control due to losing it.
--> gijeong was alone and isolated
--> inseop knew it and continuously exploits that fact
And a lot of high functioning sociopaths/psychopaths go to jobs like these --> Law, corporate, politics, acting.
Since there's a thrill of stepping over others, abusing power and victims to contain a strong image about themselves.
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i'm100% = analytical and factual.
I analyze, I write A LOT [about behavior]. Straightforward.
i'm100% = analytical and factual.
I analyze, I write A LOT [about behavior]. Straightforward.
