@Darkphoenix nah if later in life one of those people came and genuinely apologized, I wouldn't be friends W em, but I wouldn't hate them, and I wouldn't ruin their life. sure there are people that no matter how much they apologized I would never forgive them, but they did things I wouldn't compare to ostracizing someone, esp cause of a mix of the environment they were raised in and internalised homophobia