All the people in the comments forgot how Cirrus manipulated everyone like it was all a game to him. Yes he has family issues and had a traumatic childhood but it doesn't give him the right to play with everyone's feelings and get away with it just because he's become a good boyfriend!
Comment by What? on Lost in the Cloud - Chapter 120
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@What? And so what if my man manipulated everyone and treat me amzing u think I'm going to have a problem with it and at the end of the day he still love him
@What? You are right, that doesn't give him a right to do all that, any person who has had a normal childhood would think that "ohh they didn't have to do that, ohh that doesn't give them the right to do so and so". But this is not right. Anyone who has faced traumatic events would develop some sort of coping mechanism to numb the pain, sometimes they go all numb and stop feeling any sort of empathy, those traumatic experiences make it hard for them to trust people, they make them believe everyone is bad hence they seem to come out as bad. There is no denying that what he did was wrong, but at the end when he confessed to what he did, felt bad about doing those things, he felt guilty hence he decided to leave because he thought nobody would want him anymore. And tell you what , when people desperatly want to change, they tend to leave everything and everyone behind because it would remind them of their past self that they hate. So Cirrus is going to change for the better now.
@Dumpling My comment wasn't exactly directed to Cirrus, i do blame him for whatever he's done but I'm talking about the people who wants Skylar to act like nothing happened and forgive Cirrus. It's being hypocrite to justify Cirrus actions because he's had trauma but expecting Skylar to be all understanding ignoring the fact that he's been traumatized too!
@ratskills You are one of those "everyone" he's manipulated but if you want to be ignorant about it so be it, i wouldn't call it love and love isn't the only thing that matters