@Han sooyoung Not true at all, don't close off yourself like that. What's important isn't chasing this 'love' but finding the right person, my lover was initially my best friend, we met in highschool years ago, we started off rough, both of us being very reserved, it took a lot of effort from both sides to slowly break down our walls, understand each other and communicate freely, of course we wouldn't have stupid fictional misunderstandings, but this person- is my destiny, and I'm sure you'll find your destined one too.