Hey there every one I'm kinda in need of advice As you see I think I am stupid cause you see I'm kinda working on myself and I like drawing so I'm kinda working on it and I like making tiktoks but I am not really good at it So here is the problem cause whenever I do something or something happens to me either good or bad I tell everyone around me and they aren't really interested in it and make me feel like I'm useless by comparing me to others But I don't know why i end up telling them or showing them again I can't control it if I feel like I did something better then the last time and tell everyone around me but I end up feeling dumb or so down
@Ding Ding Hello! i hope u know that each and every one of us have our own special talents and abilities :) i think it's wonderful that u're putting effort into developing ur drawing skills and creating tiktoks, but please be gentle with urself and understand that improving in any skill takes time and practice. u're making progress and that's something to be proud of! when it comes to sharing ur accomplishments with others, not everyone will be interested, and that's okay. it's important to find people who support and encourage u in ur passions. connect with friends or online communities that share ur interests and appreciate ur efforts and progress. please don't compare urself to others. we all have different journeys and timelines, and it's not fair to urself to measure ur progress against someone else's. it's better to focus on ur own growth and celebrate every achievement along the way, wish u the best!
@Ding Ding It sounds like you're going through a difficult time. It's important to remember that everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses, and there's no shame in that. It's normal to want to share your accomplishments with those around you, but it's also important to find people who will support and validate your efforts, rather than making you feel down. One way to deal with this situation is to try to focus on your own progress and celebrate your small victories, rather than comparing yourself to others. Try to be patient with yourself and remember that growth is a process, and it takes time to develop skills and talents. Another way to deal with this situation is to consider seeking professional support, such as counseling or therapy. A therapist can provide a safe and supportive environment to talk about your feelings and experiences, and can offer strategies for coping with negative thoughts and emotions. Remember, you are not alone, and you have the strength and resilience to overcome these challenges.
@Ding Ding It's completely understandable to feel down when the people around you don't support you. However, it's important to remember that you are a strong and capable individual with inherent worth, regardless of what others think or do. It's essential to surround yourself with a positive community of people who will support and uplift you, but it's also important to cultivate a sense of self-love and worthiness that is independent of external validation. You are enough, and you deserve to be happy and fulfilled, regardless of anyone else's opinions. If you find yourself in a situation where you don't have a support network, it's okay to seek support and guidance from other sources, such as therapy or support groups. These resources can help you to build your self-esteem and resilience, and provide you with the tools and strategies you need to overcome obstacles. In the end, remember that you are capable and worthy, and that you have the ability to create meaningful connections with supportive and caring individuals. It may take time and effort, but the journey towards self-love and a supportive community is worth it.
