Comment by Seb03 on MrsDoodlebob

@Seb03 you know honestly about half way through writing my ADHD got the better of me and I couldn't remember my train of thought so I guess we're both confused, but I think i meant that most bl has a mc or ml that cheats or is a rapist (at some point in the plot) whereas being a murderer isnt necessarily betraying their relationship with the mc so we can tolerate it? But in normal standards being a cheater is way less bad than a murderer so thats why I question if our standards are low or high as our list of priorities to ship in bl seem to be vastly different from reality 🤔