I have vaguely read this manhwa... correct me if I'm wrong, but why it is a problem if a person is closed off trying to fix things without burdening anyone. From woo won's perspective I understand he struggles to deliver his true emotions, always trying to act accordingly rather than how is feeling, it's not like he's blatantly disregarding other person's feelings or actions on the conversation he is trying to accommodate them, clearly he is struggling to express , he constantly worring other person's position and trying to be understanding of them. So why this is a bad thing???? Why everyone is blaming him, saying he is insecure and asking him to communicate, he does feel insecure but he is clearly not acting on it, here it's show he is acting opposite of trying to be reasonable trying to be rational holding on to himself despite suffering. Why is that wrong?
Comment by VEEE on The Pizza Delivery Man and The Gold Palace - Chapter 86
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@VEEE
because it leads to depression and suffering. that's why.
You're not "burdening" your partner when you have problems in a loving relationship, you share your problem, and you naturally get help to solve it, and be happy for the rest of your life.
But woowon keeps thigs to humself too much, which means he still exclude seo an from his life
They're not _really_ together yet.
@VEEE I understand what you mean,like woo won didn't want to burden his ex...but still in a relationship,if you don't want to burden your partner and still don't even have solution to the problem you've been hiding or a way t go about it. It turns to depression and can affect how you connect with your partner... Its not a must your partner must actually carry all your burden but a problem shared a is a problem if not solved but half solved. They could have Ideas or a way to show comfort alone. It doesn't make one look weak. That's what a relationship is about too. If I was in a relationship and my partner only keep showing me sweet sides of him alone, I'll bug him