@kyoonchuu I have the same worries. I'm in my 40s, almost in my 50s. Anyone who is under 30 is a kid to me, but I do remember stanning toxic male protagonists in my teens. Though I was lucky, I saw some of my students (college) date these type of guys. I was kinda taken aback because some of the toxic men, whom I didn't even realize were abusive, were some of my outstanding/popular students. They were just so afraid to seek help, especially the strong women and strong gay men, wouldn't reach out until it was too late. Hurts to see that they blamed themselves.
I'm a 40+ old auntie who likes BL. My husband calls them the "anti-husband system". 😅
