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Jojo·1 week ago

😗… mother got annoyed at me… she walked into my room “I told you to fix the dishes, if you don’t do it I will get mad at you” I had already told her I would do them the first time she asked me too, well it was also dinner at the same time so I was thinking I could do it after that but she ended up slamming my door really hard so I just went and did them 🙂💛… why can’t she just say it without slamming my door, it’s always scaring me so much cuz I don’t know what she will do if she ends up mad, she is like a ticking bomb, sorry for venting a bit.. didn’t know who to talk or text about it. And I can’t talk openly about it with mother cuz she can’t take any criticism or she will get furious 

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Got to much school in my life
I am 100% a night owl and -100% a morning person 
I am a lazy person that enjoys exercising
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Lily
Lily·1 week ago

@Jojo  Same with my mother too. She told me to take some dishes out of the fridge to warm them up. So I naturally took them out. But then she shouted at me for taking out the wrong ones an hour later. I am too scared to say that she can just put the other things back in. Orelse she will explode like a ticking time bomb and there will be no end to guilt tripping along with emotional blackmails.

@Jojo it's so exhausting to walk on eggshell in your own house like the chores are not going anywhere.i still dont get when and for what my mom is gonna get angry on me

Jojo
Jojo·1 week ago

@Lily yeahhhh exactly 😭 my mother is like that too, just she can end up grabbing me and shaking me or walking up onto my face and scream in my face, and then she be saying I got it a lot better then how her childhood was, well it probably is cuz hers was really harsh but she hasn’t really made my childhood nice either even if it isn’t as bad as hers was 🙂

Jojo
Jojo·1 week ago

@serenex exactly, like you want us to do the chores why not let us make them in our peace then, your not gonna touch it anyways 😭?