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yeonjuneieBattle-HardenedΒ·1 week ago

I'm so bad at comforting , my dad's aunt is in the hospital , her current state is not so well , and my dad cried a little bit and it's obvious that he's not okay , but i just can't do anything .Because I don't know how to react or deal with someone like this I'm so used to keep my own problems to myself so don't have any idea how people actually share their burdens and try to soothe them πŸ™

𝑆𝑦𝑙𝑒𝑠 π»π‘œπ‘‘ π‘Šπ‘–π‘“π‘’ ❀️ my wifey and love

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Yukiella
YukiellaGeneralΒ·1 week ago
@yeonjuneie i also feel that i guess i you can't console so sit beside them if they need i guess the company of somedear to you makes you feel better you can hug your father say what that could make it better or sit beside your dad and say that it will be fine your aunt will get better that would be good i think sooo idk cause i am also scared to do things moslty espeacially consoling people
yeonjuneie
yeonjuneieBattle-HardenedΒ·1 week ago
@Yukiella I never hugged him before 🫠 our family connections is so complicated so I just don't know how to react (he drank and already fell asleep by the way) but still thanks for the advice , I hope everything will be okay ☺️☺️
Yukiella
YukiellaGeneralΒ·1 week ago
@yeonjuneie I understand i never hugged my father too my sibling do it all the time so i saw them and told you i hope your aunt gets better