Comment by animadeus on The Man At Night - Chapter 40

@animadeus what exactly is your point here? Making your baby someone else's responsibility is better than working at strip club?

@animadeus  what the baby mama did was an absolute crime, what they do, is just a line of work. what's wrong with that? they're not complete assh**** who just sleep and go.

@aisu

oke? But they can acknowledge that raising a baby ALONE it's not easy either. No need to call her out like she made the baby alone. And I was also referring to the "hidden maternal instinct". It's not even her baby why would she have it?

@Akil I never said that tho? They fu** for money cause (I suppose) they have no other choice to gain enoug money to survive. The mother abandoned the child cause she has no other choice. Strippers (usually) are the more empathetic people, but I guess it doesn't apply to men? They're all running away from the responsibility (even though I think it's their right), but blaming a single mother for handling the situation the best she could? A

@animadeus RUNNING FROM RESPONSIBILITY??? they're not responsible for their client getting pregnant, they come, pay, have $ex and that's where it ends. I'm not judging the mother bc yes sometimes you don't have resources to raise s baby and it's better to let someone else do it but there's foster care for that.

@animadeus  well they stated that it was just a joke, ( hidden maternal instict. ) but i'm not saying she made the baby alone. what's your perspective though?

@Akil I agree, but a ebtter option is "asking" the dad first. But yeah, responsibility cause YES they're just working and YES they use protection, but at the end of the day the baby didn't ask to be born, it's the parents responsibility. And they both can just not take it for all I care, but atleast give her the benefit of doubt instead of making those comments

@aisu honestly, just be respectful to the mother to a certain extent, they have no context. It can be postpartum depression as well as it could be her having no money. No need to call her names

@animadeus bro all this just bc they called her "names"? come on now let's be little more mature😭