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Comment by Cein on Stranger Than Friends - Chapter 96
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This was heavily insensitive that's not how it works you can't just leave being in an abuse relationship is hard and sometimes you just can't leave clearly you've never been in a situation like that.
@7moons well it definitely isnt easy. he is emotionally bound to him, he cant let him go emotionally even if he wants to, nhe is scared adn anxious that he will be alone ´,afterall he has no one else adn its like he is wearing love-glasses. he sees passed all this horrible treatment adn all, and stuff like thisjust f*cks with your mental health
@7moons are you seriously victim blaming right now? If someone is abusing another person, it is 10000% the abusers fault. Whether Daejong leaves or not, the fault will always lay on the abusers hand. Here in this manwha and in real life too. If Sihyeon wanted to push him away, there are a million ways to do it without abusing someome who just lost his last family member and is in a vulnerable position. It is clear as day that DJ is not mentally well, which is why he's choosing to stay. There's a reason why victims of abuse stay with their abusers, and it's not because they love to suffer. If it was so easy to leave there wouldn't be any victims, period. Although it might be hard to understand, I think you should try to be more empathetic. I know this is fiction but a LOT of people go thru this every day, and blaming the victim is extremely cruel and just plain wrong. I really hope you truly show more empathy to real people on your day to day life.
@7moons saying he has a choice does not mean he actually has a choice plus some victims can't just leave they're abusersfor multiple reasons like thinking the abuser will change it that they actually live them and so many more reasons