@katkittykatkayt THANK YOU! Out of the three of them I'd say Xinlu is the beige flag while the mc and Ilay is red flags. Like let's be real, Ilay got with mc and xinlu back to back, and purposely to pi** mc off. And mc is constantly being put in situations where he's getting sexual with Ilay, like if you like Xinlu sooooo much like you say then why you sleeping with someone else, repeatedly. Like in reality, if we were in xinlu's shoes, we'd have dumped/ghosted mc because that's unexceptable and disgusting. You can't ever trust someone like that, to say they like you and take you on dates but bang someone else is CRAZY