MB looks quite dead these days so I'm gonna take adventage of that and vent. My ex slept with someone else on that ONE week we've been broken up. When I found out he justified himself saying he was single, and he was, but 1 week dude, I still feel betrayed. I feel like I'm in the wrong because we were both single, but the time apart was because we had to think if we wanted to be together or not, not to sleep around. And it doesn't help that he came back to me after sleeping with someone else. So what, was the answer to our problems in someone else's pu***? He keeps saying we were broken up, but it hurts so much
@Bldemon There's a lot of other choices he could have made to figure out if he really wanted to be with you or not. & the fact that he went straight for that without considering your feelings to me seems like he doesn't genuinely care about you the way you would need someone to care about you. Even if you were on a "break" the fact is that either he didn't consider how him jumping into bed with someone else would hurt or effect you. Or he knew it would most likely hurt/bother you, but he doesn't really care because he did it anyway.
If y'all had actually broken up I'd say you can't really hold it against him. But you guys were just taking some space apart with the mutual intention of exploring your relationship/feelings further in the near future. I wouldn't want to be with someone who couldn't even wait before we fully sorted our ish out. There's couples out here waiting months/years for each other. & homie was that desperate he dropped his draws in 7 days or less? Nah. If you're hurt now, you're definitely going to be miserable trying to be with him any longer. & he's probably going to see that as a way to do whatever he wants whenever he needs a "break" because he can guilt trip you into taking him back after & have you believing it was a "break" so it's none of your business & you can't hold him accountable. Ultimately it's your choice, but after I had a real bad on/off breakup/makeup with someone I realized that no matter how bad I wanted it to work out. I was actually more miserable trying to fix things with that person, than I was just being by myself. Ain't no reason to keep putting in effort for someone that has indifferently done things that have hurt you or made you cry multiple times. Also don't let your boyfriend/girlfriend/etc. keep you from your husband/wife/etc. Don't let these mf's waste your youth/time/emotions. Sorry for the random rambling rant. Lol. I've just been in a similar situation before & wasted time I could have spent on myself and moving on to better when I was younger.
@Bldemon Yk, It's always better to get rid of trash sooner rather than later. You are on the winning side in this case and can totally congratulate yourself.
@Bldemon It just goes to show how men think with their di**. Leave it, he isn't really at fault but the fact that he did that meant that he was just an ass**** mother fuc*** whose pants are too loose. Still, ghost/block him. Keep your mind distracted so you don't think of that dick****.
