I get him but I am so disappointed in him at the same time... he acts like she is nothing without his order and autonomy...like what about her... I loved seeing her finally break away from her father and not feel as inferior as she felt in past... I get that they will be 4 yrs apart but still ur stupid plan would have left her with guilt... I hate the way he talks to her "cut it out, stop dreaming" what do u take her for a puppet, he always tries to shut her up either by kissing or shouting, his lack of respect for her pisses me off 
Comment by Whatever on Under The Oak Tree - Chapter 167
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@Whatever that's what I wanna say the lack of respect is highlighting the power imbalance very clearly. It gives me the ick 😫
In that sense tho it's pretty realistic how marriage look with this kind of a dynamic. Even from a place of love it's still controling 🙃