It is so sad that everybody here won't get accepted as they are, and I'm happy that I didn't have to experience this. Because I think my papa just knew it, and it is fun to discuss pretty ladies with him, and my mama... Well I just told her I got a gf, and she just said it was neat. The only thing is my homophobic brother and grandparents, so if enybody knows how to deal with it it would help, because I mean im just 12,i have a long way to live and i don't wanna live as a closeted pansexual forever... U wish people would not have to experience this...
Comment by I love my girlfriend on Here U Are - Vol.1 Chapter 125
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u sound so mature...honestly its cool i feel kind of jealous,(bc im 12 too)
having homophobic grandparents and brothers isnt fun at all i dont think
that i can ever come out, tho i dont think its half as bad bc im bisexual and
i can just hide that i have feelings for any girls and just say that i have feelings
for only boys tho i know that i wont be able to hide it forever
19 year old here who hasn't come out, so I can't say a whole lot from personal experience. However, I can near confidently say that time is the best way to change. Be open with your brother and grandparents, maybe not specifically about yourself but the state of the world we live in. Things are always changing. Eventually, they will likely come around. It might take until your 19 or older, so have patience.
My LGBT-phobic mother has had such thoughts for my entire life. However, just recently for the first time it sounded like she was vaguely open to the idea of nonbinary identifiying people - and this is because of a friend of mine who she has met twice. So, time and small exposure is my answer.