@Trinity so are you saying that as long as "x" person is living their best life is okay to be cheated on and nobody should feel bad about you? Okay I see where are you going and is not pretty, we're not discussing if she cares or if she is doing enough in the relationship, a cheater is a cheater regardless, and it's a very fvcktup situation, so yes; I feel bad for her, that's it what the original comment was about, if you don't, you don't! go cry about it somewhere else ty