If after telling someone that i have negative feelings about hearing being called beautiful bc some pos dude - i don't want to hear the same word from the person i just told that to.
also cis het men (especially those in positions of power) grooming minors - gross. All the flattery and affection towards less experienced people who are in this situation also minors is grooming. And minors can't consent. Coercion - not consent. Bc mel questioned why record it, so she wasn't fully on board. Plus his lies about white blood cells - grooming her to help him.
tossing people aside after you take their virginity. Gross.
purity nonsense also gross.
And yea the whole marrying the person who assaulted you thing to "take responsibility" also gross.
They will probably (like Melinda) end up abused. So they end up abused physically/mentally/financially, stuck in their situation bc this doesn't seem like a place that allows divorce, no support from in laws or parents mental or financial bc they are worried about gossip or just want to protect themselves
