@Pika imagine being married at age of nine, a forced marriage, letting her family and home go, and the only person you trusted and you talked to dies. Do u think she doesn't suffer a lot? ok, the husband goes to war to have money that she uses, and gives her everything she wants and she doesn't even demonstrates gratitude. But, isn't he the full with friends (friends/those from the army), isn't he adored by the country, she doesn't even speaks bad to him or anything, she just doesn't talk to him, she's afraid of him. So, why are you why are you belittling her suffering, why are you comparing the sufferings when she was forced to leave everything she loves, everyone she adores for a forced marriage where everyone from the outside and inside only judges her, they bad-mouth her for something she isn't the one to blame.
rita 