@Takashi the reason you feel aromantic might be because you're chasing interest instead of actual feelings. Plus TV and media has been portraying love in an unrealistic way for years, once you actually start getting into a relationship you may feel dissapointed bc it wasn't the kind of feeling you were romanticizing in your head. (this is all based on theory idk you or your life experiences it's just a possibility that I'm throwing on the table)
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