idk if this may help bc i'm aromantic now but i wasn't always. so if u ever slightly feel like when you're with someone but you're more obsessed than u would've been towards a friend, and that u think about them a lot and tend to always make eye contact, u may feel a romantic attraction to them. in some cases ur attraction may solely be bc of their gender at first( which makes it obvious whether you're straight/ lesbian/ gay) but if you like them despite their gender, you're probably pan or omni bc all that matters if you're attracted bc of their personality or maybe a vibe they've given