@Mad Man im 33 im 34 in march my wife is 30 on the 26th of December this year we been together for 13yrs I met her in November 13th 2012 on blackberry messenger I was at house party my mate borrowed me his blackberry started talking we had loads in common traded numbers and Facebook talked for over a week them went on a date so we argue over our anniversary she says its the 13th I say it's the 18th lol she says when we first chatted on bbm I say its wen we first met in person on our first date we been married 8yrs so she was a month from turning 17 i was 20 at the time really gets to me when then call me but my wife is wonderful women and my rock and I fell in love at first sight my ex cheated on me and got pregnant and tried to pass the baby of as mine but we always use protection she claimed she poked a hole in a condom but the baby mixed race im white and so was my ex so I had trust issues and anxiety and depression i got a dna test it wasn't mine and my wife girlfriend at the time protected me and was by my side throughout