@kitty Very true, Heesung is not that bad compared to Jaekyung. Both are beautiful men, but Heesung has a much better personality and would be easier to live with. Even if Heesung can be a phony, at least he's not abusive. Some of the things Jaekyung has said and done to Dan are unforgivable. Like when he had Heesung watch them having s**. That was just so gross. People point out that Jaekyung has helped out Dan (and he has), but Heesung also offered Dan a job with excellent pay but Dan declined. He also had no problem spending money on Dan, and I'm sure he'll be the same way with Potato.
In my view, there's definitely no comparison when deciding which of them is a bigger red flag. I do think Heesung will end up hurting Potato somehow because this author likes toxic tops, but I doubt it will compare to what Jaekyung has done and is capable of doing to Dan.
I also agree with what you said about justification through some back story. That type of thing bothers me because regardless of his past, Jaekyung is still an adult and should know how to treat others. The funny thing is he actually does know how (e.g. Dan's granny), but he still treats most people like sh** anyway. 😠
In my view, there's definitely no comparison when deciding which of them is a bigger red flag. I do think Heesung will end up hurting Potato somehow because this author likes toxic tops, but I doubt it will compare to what Jaekyung has done and is capable of doing to Dan.
I also agree with what you said about justification through some back story. That type of thing bothers me because regardless of his past, Jaekyung is still an adult and should know how to treat others. The funny thing is he actually does know how (e.g. Dan's granny), but he still treats most people like sh** anyway. 😠
